Ever met a guy who started off being 'Mr. Too Nice' and then turned
out to be 'Mr. Not Nice At All'? At first, he is clingy, he is too
sweet, and he is so caring, but right when you decide to give in and
give him a chance, that is when the 'Not So Nice Guy' rears his ugly
head. He may not realize this, but he...
feeds off of rejection, and when
someone treats him favourably, he can no longer participate at his
pity party. This may be news to some of you, but there are about four
different kinds of 'nice' guys lurking out there, and once you find
that out, you will never fall for the nice-guy act again.
1. THE GUY WHO SAYS "I AM A NICE GUY"
When someone has to tell you that they are nice, there goes your red
flag. He is really trying to convince himself that he is nice and not
you, necessarily. The "nice guy" uses the phrase "nice guys finish
last" as their mating call. They say this with hopes that you feel
sorry for them and give them a chance, when in fact the reason they
finish last is because they are bitter and mean. In my opinion, nice
guys finish last because they are not that nice, it may be because
they lack confidence in themselves. Have you ever turned down a guy
who has too much confidence? Well, that is highly unlikely. Avoid this
sourpuss.
2. THE LONER
Of course, everyone cannot be a social butterfly, but if you find that
your suitor is failing in the friend department that may definitely be
a red flag. Some "nice" guys really turn out tobe loners. He will
share with you tales of friends, who have done him wrong in the past,
or who don't come around anymore. You will start to question if he is
the problem. Okay,what I am trying to tell you is that he is the
problem, he's the really, big problem. At first you think he may be
just be timid and introverted, then you realize he is just not nice to
people. Push this guy away before he tries to push you away first.
3. THE SELF-CENTERED NICE GUY
This version of the nice guy thinks the whole world is against him. He
likes to believe that he does so much for other people, but no one
ever returns the favor. After weeks of hearing his sad story, you
realize he does not do things from his heart he does it because he
wants the recognition.
Therefore, every time he does a favor for you he will keep tally, so
that the one time he asks you for help and you say no,he will deem you
a horrible person whom he will forever remember as one of the people
who did so much for and got nothing in return. Tell him to get over
himself and move on.
4. MR. SPLIT PERSONALITY
At times, he is sweet as pie but at unexpected times, he is the other
way round. After examining this specimen of a man, I have realized
their nice guy role is a role they have been playing all their life.
In fact, these guys tend to be mean and sometimes verbally abuse. He
goes from hot to cold in a split second possibly because he is been
holding his true self in for too long.
#My only advice for you is to just run.
out to be 'Mr. Not Nice At All'? At first, he is clingy, he is too
sweet, and he is so caring, but right when you decide to give in and
give him a chance, that is when the 'Not So Nice Guy' rears his ugly
head. He may not realize this, but he...
feeds off of rejection, and when
someone treats him favourably, he can no longer participate at his
pity party. This may be news to some of you, but there are about four
different kinds of 'nice' guys lurking out there, and once you find
that out, you will never fall for the nice-guy act again.
1. THE GUY WHO SAYS "I AM A NICE GUY"
When someone has to tell you that they are nice, there goes your red
flag. He is really trying to convince himself that he is nice and not
you, necessarily. The "nice guy" uses the phrase "nice guys finish
last" as their mating call. They say this with hopes that you feel
sorry for them and give them a chance, when in fact the reason they
finish last is because they are bitter and mean. In my opinion, nice
guys finish last because they are not that nice, it may be because
they lack confidence in themselves. Have you ever turned down a guy
who has too much confidence? Well, that is highly unlikely. Avoid this
sourpuss.
2. THE LONER
Of course, everyone cannot be a social butterfly, but if you find that
your suitor is failing in the friend department that may definitely be
a red flag. Some "nice" guys really turn out tobe loners. He will
share with you tales of friends, who have done him wrong in the past,
or who don't come around anymore. You will start to question if he is
the problem. Okay,what I am trying to tell you is that he is the
problem, he's the really, big problem. At first you think he may be
just be timid and introverted, then you realize he is just not nice to
people. Push this guy away before he tries to push you away first.
3. THE SELF-CENTERED NICE GUY
This version of the nice guy thinks the whole world is against him. He
likes to believe that he does so much for other people, but no one
ever returns the favor. After weeks of hearing his sad story, you
realize he does not do things from his heart he does it because he
wants the recognition.
Therefore, every time he does a favor for you he will keep tally, so
that the one time he asks you for help and you say no,he will deem you
a horrible person whom he will forever remember as one of the people
who did so much for and got nothing in return. Tell him to get over
himself and move on.
4. MR. SPLIT PERSONALITY
At times, he is sweet as pie but at unexpected times, he is the other
way round. After examining this specimen of a man, I have realized
their nice guy role is a role they have been playing all their life.
In fact, these guys tend to be mean and sometimes verbally abuse. He
goes from hot to cold in a split second possibly because he is been
holding his true self in for too long.
#My only advice for you is to just run.
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