15 TIPS TO CONSIDER OR KNOW BEFORE GETTING MRRIED - BY OKONKWO SAMUEL

Before you get married please read...
1. Once you are hooked to the wrong person the battle is over, you
will either be managing or patching till you die. If a goat marries a
fish, how would they live or where would they be meeting each other?
It is only
when the goat is thirsty and goes to the river to drink water that
they will only see briefly as the fish will jump out to greet the goat
and swim away. Any marriage where both partners see each other once in
a long while is likened to the goat and fish illustration above.
Marriage does not make marriage. It is the people in marriage that
make marriage.
2 .Compatibility is worked out, of course you may never get a perfect

person. But with dedication,knowledge and wisdom compatibility will
start building, that is if he or she is the right person.
3. But the major challenge in getting married is choosing the right
person. You don't choose a person because he or she is available or
eligible. You choose a person because that person is the right for
you.
4. Run away from any man or woman that is easily angered by nature;
that is getting angry easily is he or she's lifestyle. It is difficult
to change that person. But if someone gets angry by mistake, that
person can be corrected but if it is his or her nature, you have to
think twice.
5. It is possible to mis-marry. It is possible to be living with the
wrong man or woman. It is possible to be dating the wrong person or be
in courtship with the wrong person.
6. Once your choice is right then you are on the right track. How can
a lion be married to a goat? what now
happens when the lion is hungry? Any man that beats his wife is
likened to the above illustration. Any woman that oppresses her
husband is also likened to this scenario.
7. There are some people that are highly inflammable, please do not
take a box of matches nearthem. What this means is that these people's
hearts are made of stone, giving them your soft heart in love is a
mistake. They will not value it.
8. Love may be blind to many, but marriage will definitely open their
eyes. Love in reality is not blind when you start seeing those
unchangeable signs during courtship please keep off. When a man starts
cheating on you when dating, it is a sign that he will do much more
when he is married to you. He or she may legally begin to cheat on you
because he is now married legally to you.
9. Dating is not for outing alone, dating is for knowing, watching and
examining. Watch outfor negative signs to see if it can be dealt with,
if it cannot be dealt with in courtship it may notchange in marriage.
10. To get the right person, try to be the right person. Work on
yourself, work on your flaws.
11 America and the western world is plagued with divorce today because
they marry without paying attention to these facts listed above. They
marry without knowing the person they are marrying at least to a large
extent.
12. Don't practice divorce before you get married. That is when you
are breaking relationshipsover and over
again, your emotion is also affected in the process. Wait for the right person.
13. Don't marry because you cannot enjoy your single hood. If you are
happy being single, then you will be happy being married and if you
are not happy while still single....
14. Marriage is not an escape from single hood but marriage is
actually a graduation from single hood...moving
from writing simple exams of life to writing another hard exams.
15. Do not rush into marriage because you are under pressure or you
are feeling you are the oddone out. When you are feeling everyone is
getting married except you then you are making yourself becoming a
wrong person.
Questions arise: (Girls especially)
1. What is marriage?
2. What happen to girls if they don't get married?
3. Why girls rush into immature marriage?